Have a special someone in mind? Wish to strengthen a friendship or relationship? this is what i think that can really make or break a friendship or relationship.
Whenever she talks, politics, family, friends, anything. Pay attention to her. Every time she is speaking to you, make an effort to look her in the eyes and understand what she is saying. If you do not understand, tell her. This will show her that you are listening and would like to hear what she has to say.Trustworthiness; prove yourself to her daily. If you give her your word that you will be there for her, follow through all the time not just part of the time. How can anyone love or care for someone and lie to them at the same time? i've learnt my lessons and its heartwrecking. Even small lies to save her feelings can lead to problems later on. Telling her the truth is the best way to build a healthy and trusting relationship.
If she is a unique individual, whether you believe that or not. Don't make anything or anyone else more important than her or above her. There are many paths of life and hers may be differing from yours. Accept her and "cherish her" for who she is; after all, she's the only one who will always be there for you if you treat her right. Remember, you're not the only man in this world: there is a man for her that would love her and care for her if you don't. A woman wants a man that will put her first, above everyone or everything else, and show her that he loves her and cares about her. If you can't do that let her go and find someone who can and who will be fair with her; at least show her that you do have some good in you. If you have not seen her for a few days, call her and tell her how much she means to you, and that you can't wait to see her again.
Tell her how much you adore her everyday, everyone wants to know that they are loved and appreciated; friends or soon to be lifepartner^^ DO NOT TAKE HER FOR GRANTED D: If you're not making much of an effort to be honest and show her you care, there's a good chance that she will make it clear that she no longer wishes to put up with your selfishness and lies. You should never put anything else before her, if you really love her or care about her and want to be with her the rest of your life. You should always make her feel that she is important to you, above everything else in your life. Her happiness should be important to you; take care not to hurt her. Listen to her if she tells you that she is unhappy with something you are doing, and do something about it. Remember that women do not always say what they feel, however. If you feel that something is wrong in your relationship, try to find a time when both of you are calm and collected and talk to her about it. Ask her if there is anything that is making her unhappy, and listen to what she tells you. While you should not try to change yourself for another person, you should be willing to change your behaviour to make your loved one happy.
When she is trying to help you, listen to her and take her words into consideration. Showing her that you're willing to take her advice will help to build a respectful, equal relationship.Showing a woman that you love, respect and care for her will go a very long way. Always tell her the truth. This will earn you her trust and respect.Step in and help her without being asked. Show her that you are there for her~ chivary not chivas:) Women are actually very sensitive when it comes down to some things, so some of this may just be common sense but i doubt some men does actually have those:) If you know she is sensitive about something in particular, be more careful about that subject; be considerate.Try to give her the good life that she so deserves, emotionally and physically. You can never expect to receive if you do not give..
Like the great oscar wilde said "Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood.” ; agree or disagree. God created women to be cherished, loved, adored, and not for man to exploit them or take them for granted. WELL I LOVE WOMEN THATS ALL.
xo p/s~ “You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her” :D
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