Have a special someone in mind? Wish to strengthen a friendship or relationship? this is what i think that can really make or break a friendship or relationship.

Whenever she talks, politics, family, friends, anything. Pay attention to her. Every time she is speaking to you, make an effort to look her in the eyes and understand what she is saying. If you do not understand, tell her. This will show her that you are listening and would like to hear what she has to say.Trustworthiness; prove yourself to her daily. If you give her your word that you will be there for her, follow through all the time not just part of the time. How can anyone love or care for someone and lie to them at the same time? i've learnt my lessons and its heartwrecking. Even small lies to save her feelings can lead to problems later on. Telling her the truth is the best way to build a healthy and trusting relationship.

If she is a unique individual, whether you believe that or not. Don't make anything or anyone else more important than her or above her. There are many paths of life and hers may be differing from yours. Accept her and "cherish her" for who she is; after all, she's the only one who will always be there for you if you treat her right. Remember, you're not the only man in this world: there is a man for her that would love her and care for her if you don't. A woman wants a man that will put her first, above everyone or everything else, and show her that he loves her and cares about her. If you can't do that let her go and find someone who can and who will be fair with her; at least show her that you do have some good in you. If you have not seen her for a few days, call her and tell her how much she means to you, and that you can't wait to see her again.

Tell her how much you adore her everyday, everyone wants to know that they are loved and appreciated; friends or soon to be lifepartner^^ DO NOT TAKE HER FOR GRANTED D: If you're not making much of an effort to be honest and show her you care, there's a good chance that she will make it clear that she no longer wishes to put up with your selfishness and lies. You should never put anything else before her, if you really love her or care about her and want to be with her the rest of your life. You should always make her feel that she is important to you, above everything else in your life. Her happiness should be important to you; take care not to hurt her. Listen to her if she tells you that she is unhappy with something you are doing, and do something about it. Remember that women do not always say what they feel, however. If you feel that something is wrong in your relationship, try to find a time when both of you are calm and collected and talk to her about it. Ask her if there is anything that is making her unhappy, and listen to what she tells you. While you should not try to change yourself for another person, you should be willing to change your behaviour to make your loved one happy.

When she is trying to help you, listen to her and take her words into consideration. Showing her that you're willing to take her advice will help to build a respectful, equal relationship.Showing a woman that you love, respect and care for her will go a very long way. Always tell her the truth. This will earn you her trust and respect.Step in and help her without being asked. Show her that you are there for her~ chivary not chivas:) Women are actually very sensitive when it comes down to some things, so some of this may just be common sense but i doubt some men does actually have those:) If you know she is sensitive about something in particular, be more careful about that subject; be considerate.Try to give her the good life that she so deserves, emotionally and physically. You can never expect to receive if you do not give..

Like the great oscar wilde said "Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood.” ; agree or disagree. God created women to be cherished, loved, adored, and not for man to exploit them or take them for granted. WELL I LOVE WOMEN THATS ALL.

xo p/s~ “You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her” :D

i kept my distance but you still catch my eye

WOMEN. Sometimes i wondered if i was attracted to them or the opposite."sounds gay!" Ohwells i would imagine that bad things would happen to them if i talked to them. This one girl i liked recently, i mean long long time ago; I couldn't stop obssesing over her, dying for some reason and i kept imagining bad things would happen to her if i talked to her in the end i didn't do anything. But things started to change this year, we got to know one another through mutual friends, to find out that despite having such playfull appearance but deep inside she's so darn awesome, funny, kind and MANY MANY MORE can't list all down:). But i was thinking about telling my friend about this just so he can know why I acted so strangely but the thing is he is someone who is very very close to her.SIGHS:S

THIS LYRICS REALLY DO SUIT ME NOW; behold Adele / Chasing pavement...

Ive made up my mind
dont need to think it over
if im wrong i am right
dont need to look no further
this aint lust i know this is love

but if i tell the world
i'll never say enough
cos it was not said to you
and thats exactly what i need to do
if i end up with you

should i give up
or should i just keep chasing pavements
even if it leads no where,
or would it be a waste
even if i knew my place should i leave it there.
should i give up
or should i just keep chasing pavements
even if it leads nowhere

i build myself up
and fly around in circles
waiting as my heart drops
and my back begins to tingle
finally could this be it

or should i give up
or should i just keep chasing pavements
even if it leads no where,
or would it be a waste
even if i knew my place should i leave it there.
should i give up
or should i just keep chasing pavements
even if it leads nowhere

should i give up
or should i just keep chasing pavements
even if it leads no where,
or would it be a waste
even if i knew my place
should i leave it there

should i give up
or should i just keep chasing pavements
even if it leads nowhere

yeaaah ehh

should i give up
or should i just keep chasing pavements
even if it leads nowhere
or would it be a waste
even if i new my place should i leave it there

should i give up
or should i just keep on chasing pavements
should i just keep on chasing pavements

ooooohhh

should i give up
or should i just keep chasing pavements
even if it leads no where,
or would it be a waste
even if i knew my place
should i leave it there

should i give up
or should i just keep chasing pavements
even if it leads no where ~~~

Maybe i should forget about it all over again:(

Missing someone i shouldn't miss.

One of the most difficult things to articulate is the feeling you get when you are apart from someone you feel that you cannot live without. The ache, the emotion deep down that, even though it has been only a little while, seems like it will consume your every thought.:S

Life is full of change, and yet the bonds that we form can be long lasting, and so it becomes necessary to express those feelings to retain those bonds. No one likes to be separated from someone that they love, be it near or long distance love. One of the hardest parts about this ache that you feel is that you can definitely go overboard expressing how much you miss someone. Anyone can write a letter, A poem says that you’re really bad at rhyming taking more time to actually send how you feel.. hehe; send her candies or buy her something she interacts with it everyday:D Call her on the phone, i should be probably doing this one already, but hearing the other person’s voice is the next best thing to being in their presence. I've tried this before put something like a note in her bag or jacket ; tell her how much you miss her~ Oh well you can always start a textwar; send messages to each other through out the day, ones that only we will understand.

I try to talk to you, but I don't know what to say. I am afraid you don't want me to say anything. So I don't. But inside of me there are words waiting to come out.And tell you how I feel-like how I miss you. how I need you in my life. And especially how much I want you.But those words may forever stay in my heart; locked inside.Sometimes I wonder if there are words locked inside you too... but I'll never know.

xo p/s everyone says you only fall in love once but thats not true whenever i heard your voice i fall in love all over again:S can you please fall in love with me pretty please ~ :(

What should be done;-

We’ve all been there. Breaking up with someone you love is one of the most painful situations you ever have to face. In the aftermath of rejection, the hurt, the misery, the loneliness and the feeling that the future just disappeared, look as though they’ll go on forever..

All i can say is breaking up is never fun. The end of a relationship means the beginning of a period of mourning and healing for both person.If the break up was mutual both people will experience a period of adjustment where they are getting used to no longer being togather.If the break up was not mutual the person who ended things may be dealing with guilt and feelings that they may have made a mistake. The person being broken up with will definitely have to adjust, first to being rejected and second to life without somebody they still care for. How do you get through those first few weeks?

Oh well you can always avoid former love, why? seeing your former love can bring out emotions and may cause you do to or say something you will regret; the best thing you can do for yourself is not be where you know they will be.Talk out your feelings with close friends. Get everything out so that you won’t hold it inside. Your friends may get sick of hearing you talk about the situation but you need to let out all your feelings and thoughts or they may come back to bite you later, i know how it felt its dark and crappy, i felt like shattttt the whole year YEAH 1 YEAR.

Cry if you want to. It’s OK to cry over a loss. Don’t hold back, let the tears roll just do it in a safe and private place where it is unlikely to get back to your ex. You don’t want your tears to be used as a guilt trip. Their purpose is to cleanse you of any pain not make your lover come back. And yeah, i am a guy and they have feelings too so FUCK OFF if you judge.Let me tell you why, cause W\women are open with their emotions and their crying; it helps them heal much faster! You go ask a guy and cry with a group of guys.Spelled as GAY.:( Let go of mementos. Put away or give away anything and everything that reminds you of the relationship. Hide them out of sight so they will be out of mind until you are able to remember the relationship without longing for it to still be going strong. Don’t slip up and get together with your ex. When you are feeling sad or missing a relationship it can be very easy to fall back in to the arms of your ex but DO NOT DO THIS. This will only set you back and let’s face it, if things ended the relationship wasn’t perfect to begin with so why would you want to rekindle things???!!!

Think about the mean, cruel or rude things your ex may have done in your relationship. Really give these things play in your memory. Remind yourself that somebody who truly cared for you would not have done such thoughtless things and tell yourself (over and over) that you are better off without that kind of ego crushing behavior in your life. This is what i did ; i cared yet i wrecked it with my own hands :'( Mending a broken heart is not easy but it can be done, enjoy life with friends and family. Meet new people from all walks of life, experience new surrounding and stuff. But not the bad stuff in life like alcohol or drugs, sure it could help you for a short while but what happens next is side-effects:S. Like this quotes says "When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us" I never did looked at other doors, because i closed that door myself:'(

Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending :)

My dear sweet someone;

I miss you. I want to be with you and hold you close. I want to gently touch your face and cup your cheek in my hand as i look into your beautiful brown eyes. I want to snuggle and cuddle with you, to be close to you. I want to rub your leg and stare at your face as we talk of our feelings for one another:) I want to hold your hand across the table at a restaurant, I want others there to be jealous of our intimacy and our tender affections for one another"pdamuch". I want to lie next to you infront of a fire and gaze into your eyes while i rub your back.LOL

I want to be that romance you ever dreamt of or wished for. I want you to know how beautiful you are to me in my eyes, I want you to know how much i cherish and adore you. I want to give my heart to you. I want your heart, i want it all.

With fond affections and longing thoughts;

felix:) xo p/s ~A part of you has grown in me. And so you see, it's you and me together forever and never apart, maybe in distance, but never in heart.

i LOVE this picture~ its called "sitting under the rain alone without you" i think so:)

Another way of LOVING?

Life isn't just about being lucky or happy, it's about the process of growing up and learning from mistakes. Since you have make your decisions on what you want so just go ahead and do it. About the past, those you think who hurt you badly and those whom you are worry to hurt you again, leave a way and time will lead you and you will get along well. I bet it's because you think you might lose the chances, that's why you try to hold on and yet worry to be hurt gain. After all it's all about yourself choices.

Well, with the future nobody knows what will lead you into. Properly there will be no next second, we don't know. As for me, I can't change the opinion and decision on how people see me or you. There is no use for me to mention what others said was hurt. They have their own reason to do what they want to. Besides, I can't say out how I feel when all the faults was put on me, maybe you didn't...

I can't describe how I feel when my parent was away"don't get me wrong my parents are still up and kicking", I can't describe the pain I feel and the pain I feel now, I don't know why I was here and why I have to go through all this and yet I can't mention what was in my mind because I know it's hopeless and meaningless. No body will understand as well. Because I realize I don't want to be selfish, I don't mind to be an evil guy among the peoples heart.

I know that everyone is different, you could have your own opinion on certain things, same goes to me, and anybody else. I can't say that your opinion and decision was wrong. So whichever people just have to respect it. Well, properly you are more luckier then me at least, you still have your friends to be with you. I' m sure they care...

Maybe I'm once your life purpose? I don't think I'm. You and I know what happen...